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07

Disaster
September 2018

Hurricane Florence

After the flood, C. J. Caufield met people grieving ruined homes and others troubled that theirs had survived. His account makes room for questions a chaplain cannot answer.

Wilmington, North Carolina A first-person account from the Police Chaplain Project oral-history archive.

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WHAT THIS DAY TAUGHT

Lessons to carry forward

01

Disaster expands every job description

Medical staff were asked to operate a special-needs shelter. Preparedness should anticipate that institutions and chaplains will inherit functions beyond normal practice.

02

Do not answer a question the person is living

Questions such as ‘Why was I spared?’ may be expressions of shock or guilt rather than requests for theology. Honest uncertainty gives the person room to continue.

03

Survivor guilt is not limited to death

A spared home on a ruined block can create guilt and isolation. Outreach should include people whose visible losses appear smaller.

04

Frustration needs a witness

Insurance and relief bureaucracy become part of the crisis. Listening, validating and helping someone identify the next practical step can restore a measure of control.

THE FIELD BRIEF

For the next command meeting

Hurricane FlorenceSeptember 2018Chaplain C. J. Caufield

Before

  • Define special-needs shelter partnerships.
  • Train for spiritual questions without forced answers.
  • Map insurance, relief and housing referral resources.

During

  • Look beyond visibly injured survivors.
  • Let people name anger and guilt without correction.
  • Separate emotional presence from promises you cannot keep.

After

  • Return after the emergency phase becomes paperwork.
  • Watch for isolation among apparently fortunate survivors.
  • Support staff performing unfamiliar disaster roles.

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